If you and your partner have been together for many years, chances are you need to spice up the love making. How do you ask your partner? Will they feel intimated? Are you a Freak? These are all valid questions.
If you want to spice up your romance, ask your partner. Honey, what do you think about trying something new? A warm oil massage? Kama Sutra has wonderful massage “Oils of Love“- add a few drops to the erogenous area, and then gently blow to release the warming power (ps- it’s also eatable, many flavors to choose from). They are a water based solution, easy to clean, non-staining, great to use in conjunction w/ sex toys.
Kama Sutra also has a wonder Honey Dust Powder- Oh so wonderful! You can use these wonderful scented powders for everyday use, to keep you fresh and very dry. But at night lightly dust your pillow for a lovely scent, then your body, and have your partner lick the powder off your body, what a great tasting powder.
Kama Sutra has wonderful Body Souffle‘- wow talk about dessert in bed. These wonder water-based creams come in 4 fantastic flavors Chocolate, Mint, Vanilla, and Strawberry. Gently rub this cream all over your partner’s body, and then ever so gently lick it off. WOW! Only your imagination can hold you back!
So now that you have a few ways to spice up the Foreplay. You may want to start with a bullet or egg! These are little bullets of magic!! Some are wireless and last for a few hours and then you toss them. I prefer the bullets with a wire and a control setting, you can’t loose them… lol If you start with one of these little toys, they are not intimidating to a man, some men may think if you need a sex toy, then they are not doing there job in bed! That is not always true; some people want a little spice.
My favorite thing about a bullet is a double bullet on 2 wires with 2 different controls! Gently oil down your partner, with a bullet in each hand, give then a gentle neck and back massage with the bullets, then slowly work down to their genitals, and tease them with the vibrations. When the mood is right! Take one of the bullets on a higher speed and insert it into the vigina, then take the second bullet and a lower speed and lay it on the outside of your clitoris area, then have your partner enter, and he will love you forever! The sensation that he will feel is like no other! Once again, the possibility are endless, half the fun of using these little bullets, are finding new ways to incorporate them in YOUR love MAKING!
Remember, start off small, and work your selves up to the larger more exciting toys! Talk to your partner about how you feel, that is half the battle of having extra excitement in the bedroom. If you can talk about sex toys then who knows what else you can talk about, while having sex! HUMMMM… dirty talk anyone? lol
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I couldn’t agree more. the benifits out way the negatives when a little spice is added with a simple bedroom marital aid.